War: A state of armed conflict between nations,states, or different groups within.
Three things to remember in war
1. Survival of the fittest
3. expectation to die, many times
To state that dying is ever fair in the game, is bull simply because of our pride. No one wants to admit defeat, ever. We are all here to kick butt and do it again and again lol. But you need to be able to handle getting ur butt kicked too, cause sadly it swings both ways. Nothing you can do to prevent that. War is not meant to be fair. I'm not saying exploits should not be handled, nor am i saying that Fixes shouldn't be applied. I'm just saying, it hurts when u die ...Just get ur butt up, dust off and get their @ss next time!! At least.. that's my philosophy ;D
Also, I must say as a realm people should work closer together or at least have some sort of plan. Just remember the reality of the situation it's either you, or them... Someone is gonna die. No matter how well your plan may be. Accept that, and push hard. You will gain more support. Just don't give up and make excuses, That helps no one!