This is the least friendly MMO game I have ever played. Nobody ever talks or answers questions, how does anyone get answers to anything? Everyone just auto-kicks me from games for no reason accept these peons who just run around the map doing nothing to give the other side a free battle.
I am shocked by this.
Are you in Shu? I'm usually willing to give advice and help out others when I'm not chatting or fighting other players. Trust me. I've been where you are, and it's not easy getting though the first few months, especially if you've never played an MMO like DWO before. If you happen to see me, get in contact with me, and I'll be willing to give what tips and advice I can. MasterNoob can help if you're in Wu, and all I can say about Wei is...I'm not sure if anyone there will help, and if you're there, you're probably on your own.
Also, as Catgun mentioned, some people don't speak English here, so trying to talk to them doesn't do any good unless you know their language too. To top it off, some people are too elitist here and are unwilling to accept anyone below specific ranks. If you're Lt. Colonel or below though, I HIGHLY suggest that you stick to Novice battles, as 1) you won't be kicked from rooms as often, 2) there's usually a couple at a time, and 3) they'll help you prepare for higher-level battles. If you're above Lt. Colonel, you can try creating Veteran matches, though you're better off trying to enter a handicapped Musou match. Some usually do accept players below Field General, as long as they are able to do decent against actual players.
One more piece of advice: it's commonly suggested that you try to join a guild. Some are pure elitist who will only accept those at high ranks (even if those people farmed their ranks and have absolutely no skill in actual PvP), or require you to pass their "test" to prove your worth. However, many guilds are willing to accept those of either any rank or a specific low rank, and a few of those are even willing to help new players. You just gotta find the right one, and hopefully they can help you get where you want to go.
As for DWO being the least friendly MMO, I wouldn't be too sure about that. There HAVE been MMOs with FAR WORSE communities.