Stop asking for plvl, stop plvling, learn your toon and you'll know what you have to do in PvP. >.< This is a role playing game. Pick a role, learn it and play it.
Oh and stop having the mentality "I'm a one man show in a group."
Lights could make great strides if they work together.
On the other hand, a lot of older players in the game really ought to take the time to let some less experienced players in the game. Let them see what PvP is all about. Maybe offer advice. If nobody tells them what they are doing right or wrong or even how to PvP, how will they ever learn? They could be the one to blossom into a heavy force on your side.