In this setting, one can learn much from the magicarp. He toils and toils, feints and feints. People dispise the poor gaping fish and call it nasty names. Yet within the mutant koi's head, the thoughts of the tiny fish echo, "When I evolve, I'mma murder you all! >.<"
Anyways, very sorry your starting experiance was such a bad one. My best advice is to find a guild and make friends. Don't expect any freebies, but if you ever have questions, ask away. As for pvp, it may be a better idea to avoid it untill you have a good grasp of the game. Then maybe you can outfit your own noob pvpr and try taking down all them rude people. Best of all, when you reach that stage, remember your first experiance as a player and try to change that and make GF a happier place.