sure ill admit its frustrating seeing that same person joining arena who is fully geared for pvp just to try and steal the fun out of it
but what does saying "im not gonna bother" or "lets just sit here and die" gonna do exactly?
Personally I don't understand ppl that just afk in arena (but since aeria said it's legit, we can't complain about that :S ). As for giving up, I rarely do, but I can understand that fighting an unbalanced match can be frustrating for some players (and don't forget that we play for fun
). Personally I've fought even in 1v3 and had fun when I managed to kill one of the opponents even if I lost at the end (I was even told that I was "wasting their time" but not giving up at the beginning).
If you meet an OP or know AFKer in your bracket just add them in your friendlist, then check your friendlist till it shows that person inside the arena and queue.