I too was not given any options. I looked at the extra button concerning character code, but had no idea what it meant. So, I stupidly thought that it was Apocalypse that was the merged server(which currently won't load), and decided to make a "new" character on Titans...which is a total loss anyway because I cannot even build the 1st farm for the quest.
Now I have no idea how to get my original( and ONLY) sire back, on the Titans server.
And yes, I DID read the instructions, but they seemed to be focused on people playing on more than 1 server.
My original sire is NevynSmith, and I would really like her back please.
Edited to add:
Upon re-reading the instructions, I see that I should have just been logged as normal...this didn't happen, I was asked to make a character, and obviously did NOT use my already made character, so now it seems I have 2 characters on the merged server- please help me regain my original NevynSmith, and remove my new one- Icarys- which is also my Aeria account ID name.
Gawd, this is just all too confusing for this old grandma