For those that came to this post looking for an answer, then here it is:

Currently, no, you can not marry the same gender. It may be implemented in the further but no exact date or plans made as of yet.

Also, there is a way to wear clothes and equipment of your opposite gender. Awesome if you figure out how. I won't list it here but it can all be done from your character backpack alone.  

A lot of guys use a female account, commonly stating that the outfits are cuter or nicer, but I'm going to presume, that if you use a opposite gender account, that you are expected to not complain, because you chose it.

Also, if you "cross-dress" you can't color the outfit with color cards, you have to buy it from the store colored... :3  

FanGirlSqueal wrote:

A lot of guys use a female account, commonly stating that the outfits are cuter or nicer, but I'm going to presume, that if you use a opposite gender account, that you are expected to not complain, because you chose it. Also, if you "cross-dress" you can't color the outfit with color cards, you have to buy it from the store colored... :3

You could say "I" lol. but no not me! XD just seeing if I could not look in that way... aww well.

Thanks!