you send me a private message asking for help however you have incoming private messages disabled.... i hope you see this.
your on the correct page. inbound port-- use whatever the gs/aeria tells you to.
Type: tcp & udp
Private IP address: go to start>run type in cmd and hit enter
type in (no quotes) "ipconfig" hit enter. your ip address extension (the last few numbers it asks for in this table) should be there.
Check Enable, save.
if it still doesnt work try disabling firewalls temporarily and run the game if it still doesnt work then i cant help you... check the ports maybe?
if disabling the firewalls works check which firewall is blocking it. then go into the settings for it and there should be some sort of exceptions or port forwarding (i know windows default firewall requires the same port forwarding your router does).
i hope this helps. if it does please +5 karma