I'm getting this too. Supposed to be playing with a friend, but that's not going to work unless I can play for more than five minutes at a time. I tried disabling antivirus, messing with connect/connects.ini, using _launcher, using different channels, using a different server. I deleted eden eternal twice, and redownloaded/installed twice. Still happening.
Ping looks fine, tracert doesnt show any problems. Completely out of ideas.