everytime I start up SF, it works fine but once it loads 100% it kicks me off saying soldierfront.exe has terminated.. I have to reinstall SF 2 times and go back just to play 1 match then after that 1 match it does the error and have to reinstall it again... it's getting annoying as ****.

This may help to solve your issue. I'm not sure if you have done this or not but you need to add aeria games into your firewall as an exception and also add it into your antivirus programs. This way the game data can freely pass by your security walls on your computer and not be checked constantly as a threat. Here's a how-to on how to add the exception to your firewall. If you tell me your antivirus program i can try to help you with that also.

http://www.howtogeek.com/howto/uncategorized/how-to-create-exceptions-in-windows-vista-firewall/